Pros and cons of dating a older woman

20 May

– Source: TIMEThe definition for describing a ‘cougar’ is quite fluid.

For example, a popular Urban Dictionary definition labels her as, “An ‘older,’ experienced woman who happens to find herself in a sexual relationship (committed or not) with a younger man.

This is very important because understanding makes life easy. This is because lack of understanding lead to unnecessary quarrels.

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Some of these may include: financial constraints/ stability, the need for variation (dynamism), gaining experience, among a whole lot factors unmentioned.

But albeit all these, there do exist certain pros and cons when it comes to dating older men. To cap it all up, I’ll say that no one relationship is predictable or perfect.

You may need to start skipping the traditional Thursday through Sunday bar scene with the girls to appease his lifestyle.

While this may seem like a much-needed break, there is potential for you to end up at a home-dinner party socializing with a group that may tell you about their son or daughter that is “just about your age.” Awkward. Dating someone 20 to 30 years older than you means you’re probably going to see time take its toll in many ways.

And love never happens seeing someone’s age or anything as such. Emotions and Feelings never knock your heart for permission, rather enters without any prior knowledge.

She is not necessarily a slut, nor is she desperate.

She offers sexual expertise and is open to new experiences.

It is always beneficial to date a person who is mature from us.

This is because it helps them to understand us better.