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02 Feb

But that doesn't mean they can't hold a conversation."I think another misconception is that introverts would be dull dates," Dembling says. While there are many downsides to be completely introverted, there are tons of benefits.The real beauty is that introverts can learn to become more extroverted.Remember, they need alone time the same way you need socialization. Try to schedule a time block where you can go be social and they can have some quiet time.Then when you’re both recharged you can spend time together doing whatever.I can’t tell you how to do this, you just need to talk to the person you’re dating.Find out when they like to be alone and respect that time.

The advice about introverts is just plain terrible though."It can feel like nobody will notice you among all those bubbly extroverts.The way I think of it: Extroverts sparkle, introverts glow.Most days, it’s hard enough to be an introvert alone… What’s it like to be a quiet girl dating an outgoing person? Here are 15 things you’ll only understand if you’re an introvert dating an extrovert. They don’t always understand when you just want to relax and do nothing. Other people are always surprised that a reserved girl like you is dating such an outgoing person. it becomes just a little more difficult when you’re dating someone with a very extroverted personality. They get super antsy when sitting quietly for too long. Trying to explain that you need a little space for yourself once in a while comes off as insensitive and insulting. Sometimes their outgoing personality is overwhelming and exhausting. Extroverts, on the other hand, have a difficult time finding a reason to be more introverted.Extroversion provides instant gratification while introversion is more useful when playing the long game.We get along great, but we’re opposites in many things, especially when it comes to our personality. They always think you hate them, which results in you thinking that they hate you. So, when Ashley wrote about what it’s like to be an extrovert dating an introvert, I knew I had to write the same thing, from a different perspective. Author Sophia Dembling researches and writes about introverts, and her newest book is focused all on relationships: Introverts in Love: The Quiet Way to Happily Ever After.For it she interviewed more than 50 introverts — single and looking, in relationships with extroverts and other introverts, newlyweds and divorcees — and what she found complicates our typical assumptions about introverts."I think many introverts go into the dating field with a sort of one-down feeling," Dembling told Mic.